HOW to COMMUNICATE WITH the CHILD?

The Development of curiosity and independence of children through experimentation"
Throughout early childhood, along with gaming activity, of great importance in the development of the child's personality, in the process of socialization is a cognitive activity, which is understood not…

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The Amazing country of Japan. The paradoxes of Japanese education

 

Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.

Foundations of education in Japanese society tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. This permissiveness in child adult Japanese citizens differ in their ability to live of the interest of the team or firm, and law-abiding.

What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight at the festival, running a red sign or a traffic signal for the Japanese violation of the rules, the Commission of which is impossible. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood that the foundations of education.

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Club for kids

 

The term “early development” is probably familiar to anyone who has at least some relationship to pedagogy. Many parents begin to deal with a toddler at home, but not every mother have the patience, and often knowledge. Talent on a regular, well-built, but exciting activities.

Many parents try to identify the child in the manger after years on a number of economic reasons. Another group of parents wishes to leave the baby at home as long as possible but at the same time consider necessary to ensure the child’s regular activities and social interactions with peers.

Well. Demand creates supply, and now the parents of our city already has a choice – to give my one year old baby in a manger, to invite a babysitter or go to classes at the Club for kids.

Club for kids is based on the child development Center, kindergarten №57 “Dandelion, Neryungri three years. Visit the club kids aged 10 months to 2 years. The club is open two days a week (Saturday. Sunday), from 10 to 16 hours. A visit to the club is paid, the cost of one day of classes 25 rubles

The main areas of work of the club:

Improving the quality of life of children of preschool age.

The development of new forms of interaction between family and kindergarten.

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How to raise a child in good taste, manners, politeness, taste

 

We simplified the limit: go to the theatre in shorts, transport forget to give, instead of the classics voraciously read cheap novels, on TV watching action movies and TV series “soap”, and then wonder why our children are uncivilized. How to teach your child (along with myself) good manners and good taste?

You still doubt that this is necessary? Be aware that this is almost the only chance to protect their child from… drugs and alcohol! There is nothing strange – the degree of internal culture depends on the degree of addiction to harmful addictions. English scientists were interviewed more than 1,000 people and found that from fans of classical music only 1.5% are friends with “green snake”. And 24 % of the fans of electronic music and hip-hop too fond of alcohol, drugs and indiscriminate sex. By the way, the same pattern was observed in ancient times. Even Xun Tzu, philosopher of ancient China, wrote: “When the music is empty and vicious, the people dissolved and lazy, dick and contemptible”. Now you can say the same for blank books, movies and games. Thus, to influence a better future for their children, urgent start their “civilize”!

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OUR CHILDREN THREATENS COMPUTER EPILEPSY

 

Five years ago Kotlas doctors, watching a television program about the harmful damage caused by computer games health, was indignant: “What kind of a whim. How they can talk to about this so seriously?” Now doctors again in horror. But, unfortunately, for a very different reason: in our small provincial town began to appear children, the sick. computer epilepsy!

Chronicle of events

Oddly enough, the computer epilepsy has been known since the times of Ancient Rome. To identify slaves in Rome turned the Potter’s wheel, which rhythmically reflected the sun’s rays. I unfit for this work arose dizziness and nausea, were observed numbness and impaired consciousness.

1959. Artist and poet Brian Gysin during the bus trip through a shadowy alley began to hallucinate due to the change of light and shadow. A year later he built the “car of dreams” – rotating with a frequency of 78 rpm striped paper cylinder with stavatti bulb inside. Some managed to achieve a shift of consciousness.

1966. The premiere of the film “Flicker” at the new York festival. The Creator warned that epileptics to not watch. The film was 30 minutes. Some hallucinated. The rest is just a headache.

1991. Manufacturers of video games recognize Continue reading

When to teach children the culture of behavior at the table?

 

We all come from childhood, and our behavior at the table is a reflection of the habits of the parents.

Nothing creates a person, as a daily, regular activities. And what could be more regular than the meal? Reasonable and the question becomes: how to teach your child the culture of behavior at the table? What age to start and what habits to cultivate? That child in good stead, but that would be secondary and even unnecessary?

Mustache flowed – it and some got in my mouth

A very young child it is impossible, of course, to explain that the knife should be held in the right hand and fork in left. What sort of knives and forks, when the most pressing issue is how the spoon actually hold in your hand! And convey to the mouth with any presence of food – in the beginning generally at the level of the feat.

So parents, while there is time, is to think and Refine their own manners – they don’t even realize how young children are sensitive to the atmosphere in the house. And if mom or dad will scold the kid for uncleanliness when eating, one should recall the rule of parenting: the child does not, as he is told, and so, as adults themselves do. So the first joint of the meals: napkins on the table, beautiful dishes, no Kulkov with uncut bread Continue reading

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