As the father of the son of mind taught
  There lived one man, kind and intelligent. All he knew the measure was not stingy but frugal; with good people lived in harmony. Was his only son. This young…

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The Education of cats
  Cats do just as they please and do what I want. Sometimes the education of the cats takes a lot of strength and patience from their owners. But, there…

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The Siblings with an age difference of 2 years


The day after I was with her two children going on a vacation. Without her husband ) the Difference of 2 g of 3 months. And now thinking about the upcoming trip reminded me of my long-standing promise )) By the way, the Internet I will not, so I say goodbye to September )

I must say, I’m not a writer – I am a reader ) I try to write exactly what I want to Express, but sometimes it turns out not quite sure. So I want to warn you, I do not insist that the age difference is about 2 years old so perfect that all other choices are bad by definition. I’m sure the difference is big, also has its advantages. Moreover, I think that the difference in age is not a determining factor affecting the relationship of siblings. However, I like a man who consciously and deliberately sought to have a second child within 2 years after the first, and not disappointed in my decision, I want to share my thoughts.

Of course, it is best when parents consciously want a second child – but I have known cases when claiming a categorical unwillingness to even one child’s parents had a child with such a difference – and in the end they acknowledged that turned out to be very convenient Continue reading

Child divorce, divorce children, the child after divorce


Question: Good our family, this situation – my wife and I got married a month ago. she has a baby she is 7 years old. the last time she(the passenger seat) behaves not very adequate and we are concerned about her psychological and mental state.before the child that was not noticed and now she has a very frequent psychos. the existence of razdrozhitelnosti and not sderjannost for any reason. there is also the fact that at the moment she is to be with the mother(vremeto resting in the country).but the symptoms started 1.5 months ago. question actually I think you can understand. but I would like to know what is this behavior and what could affect it,we have the assumption that this is possibly a manifestation of jealousy towards the mother or the influence of mothers-in-law. I would like to know what to do and how to deal with it and whether it is necessary to struggle. thank you in advance

Reply: Dear Tosha! I think that Your assumptions are correct. Changes in the family are themselves painful for the child, and here the situation develops without it. You need to pick her up from grandma and give it Your maximum attention (read together, go for a walk, draw, sculpt, etc.) that it “thawed”, calmed down and began Continue reading