What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .
First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.
Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.
Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.
Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?
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Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, etc.
Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.
Basic methods of education
Method conversation or beliefs . This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how one ought to behave in a given situation, figures out the motives of the baby. The tone of the speech of the parent in conversation should be calm, confident and solid. Even year-old kids who can’t answer, listen carefully to the parent in response to the tone.
Method of positive reinforcement . Reinforcements are certain steps parents following action or deed. Reinforcement can be positive or negative (positive). Negative reinforcement we refer simply Continue reading
The plane is one of the safest and most comfortable ways of traveling around the world. However, many parents are afraid to fly with children, considering air travel difficult and uncomfortable.
We declare it is not! Today we have prepared for you the tips how to fly with children, in order to not inconvenience them, themselves and others.
We assure you that our tips will help you to breathe and to look at the travel enthusiastic eyes of your child.
How to fly with a baby: how much is it worth
As on many other modes of transport, plane tickets for children cost less than adults. Airlines use to children special rates:
1. The rate of infant (baby) – for children from 0 to 2 years. Children are traveling without a seat, in the hands of an adult, only 10% of the cost of full fare. The low-cost airlines also practice a fixed price for infants on all flights (e.g. Wizzair is €25).
Luggage art series “infant” may not rely on the discretion of the airline. But wheeling a stroller is almost always free of charge.
In some cases, children under 2 years old can travel without payment, most often on domestic flights. In this case the Luggage is in an adult.
2. Rate Child (children) – for children 2-11 years . As soon as the kids turned 2, they Continue reading