What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .
First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.
Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.
Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.
Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?
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Meanie ordinary (Vir Cupidus Vulgaris) is a species of men, occurring often, women unloved.
And finally: what we believe are greedy? Usually the person who refuses to fork out in a situation where Noblesse oblige: to pay the bill along with his drinking buddies, give a girl flowers, etc. However, the “clamping” can be not only financial, but also emotional, and time resources.
Rich meanie, poor meanie
Relatively zhadin there are two sustainable mutually exclusive of prejudice:
Who is poor and greedy;
All the rich is a terrible hog.
Neither that, nor another is not true. And then: a lot depends on requests. Attempt to reduce the unpretentious young lady in the school instead of pretentious cafes can be interpreted as greed. But if for the sake of this campaign to the man will have a week to tighten the belt in front of us, the attraction of unprecedented generosity.
Person secured too easy to seem greedy enough to do something not corresponding to the level of aspiration ladies. He has a generous investments and Royal gifts, and he… well, we all have pre-calculated budget, where generous gifts may not fit.
And yet: sometimes we are confronted with examples of greed that is difficult to explain upbringing, habits, or budget.
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Child development center “Rostok” – What is group socialization? Or the classic model of learning lessons for toddlers
To begin, let’s answer the question: “why bring a child to such classes”?
You can reply in different ways.
Perhaps you brought your baby with these classes simply because you want him to develop better.
Perhaps you are concerned about any issues that you hope to find answers with the help of our developmental classes.
Questions faced by many parents:
What do I do if:
my child does not speak
my child has no experience with other children
my child does not always behave the way I want, there are times when I just don’t know how to react to his behavior
my child is afraid of everything new
my child sometimes shows aggression
my child won’t let go of me for a minute
I am unable to wean the baby from the nipples
I don’t know whether it’s time to teach a child to potty, and how to do it better
my child is not yet able to drink from a Cup
I don’t know what you can teach such a child
Can to be, you don’t have these issues, but even if you are absolutely satisfied with the development of your child, this will be very useful for the baby. Our experience shows that children who attended Continue reading