A Quarrel between husband and wife: learn mutual respect
  There are few families in which spouses do not argue and quarrel. If these exist, they are considered ideal for families. However, it is not so, because the couple…

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How to raise a child, raising children
  What moms and dads make mistakes in parenting– we all know it, and perhaps even normal, especially for young, inexperienced parents… Often standing at the cash register in the…

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How to Be Friendly With Older Children

 

What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .

First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.

Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.

Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.

Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?

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Dossier on the greedy

 

Meanie ordinary (Vir Cupidus Vulgaris) is a species of men, occurring often, women unloved.

And finally: what we believe are greedy? Usually the person who refuses to fork out in a situation where Noblesse oblige: to pay the bill along with his drinking buddies, give a girl flowers, etc. However, the “clamping” can be not only financial, but also emotional, and time resources.

Rich meanie, poor meanie

Relatively zhadin there are two sustainable mutually exclusive of prejudice:

Who is poor and greedy;

All the rich is a terrible hog.

Neither that, nor another is not true. And then: a lot depends on requests. Attempt to reduce the unpretentious young lady in the school instead of pretentious cafes can be interpreted as greed. But if for the sake of this campaign to the man will have a week to tighten the belt in front of us, the attraction of unprecedented generosity.

Person secured too easy to seem greedy enough to do something not corresponding to the level of aspiration ladies. He has a generous investments and Royal gifts, and he… well, we all have pre-calculated budget, where generous gifts may not fit.

And yet: sometimes we are confronted with examples of greed that is difficult to explain upbringing, habits, or budget.

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Child development center “Rostok” – What is group socialization? Or the classic model of learning lessons for toddlers

To begin, let’s answer the question: “why bring a child to such classes”?

You can reply in different ways.

Perhaps you brought your baby with these classes simply because you want him to develop better.

Perhaps you are concerned about any issues that you hope to find answers with the help of our developmental classes.

Questions faced by many parents:

What do I do if:

my child does not speak

my child has no experience with other children

my child does not always behave the way I want, there are times when I just don’t know how to react to his behavior

my child is afraid of everything new

my child sometimes shows aggression

my child won’t let go of me for a minute

I am unable to wean the baby from the nipples

I don’t know whether it’s time to teach a child to potty, and how to do it better

my child is not yet able to drink from a Cup

I don’t know what you can teach such a child

Can to be, you don’t have these issues, but even if you are absolutely satisfied with the development of your child, this will be very useful for the baby. Our experience shows that children who attended Continue reading

The Amazing country of Japan. The paradoxes of Japanese education
  Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: "you're bad", "now I…

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Correction Problem of the psyche of children who have experienced parental divorce
Chapter I. Theoretical foundations of the problem of correction of the psyche of children, divorce of parents 1.1. The influence of psychological climate of the family on the formation of…

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