What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .
First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.
Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.
Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.
Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?
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“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young how to feed, she remembered, as did the same for her mother. Modern women somewhere inside, in the subconscious, there is a neediness in this experience, in order Continue reading
The plane is one of the safest and most comfortable ways of traveling around the world. However, many parents are afraid to fly with children, considering air travel difficult and uncomfortable.
We declare it is not! Today we have prepared for you the tips how to fly with children, in order to not inconvenience them, themselves and others.
We assure you that our tips will help you to breathe and to look at the travel enthusiastic eyes of your child.
How to fly with a baby: how much is it worth
As on many other modes of transport, plane tickets for children cost less than adults. Airlines use to children special rates:
1. The rate of infant (baby) – for children from 0 to 2 years. Children are traveling without a seat, in the hands of an adult, only 10% of the cost of full fare. The low-cost airlines also practice a fixed price for infants on all flights (e.g. Wizzair is €25).
Luggage art series “infant” may not rely on the discretion of the airline. But wheeling a stroller is almost always free of charge.
In some cases, children under 2 years old can travel without payment, most often on domestic flights. In this case the Luggage is in an adult.
2. Rate Child (children) – for children 2-11 years . As soon as the kids turned 2, they Continue reading