There lived one man, kind and intelligent. All he knew the measure was not stingy but frugal; with good people lived in harmony. Was his only son.
This young man nothing was like his father. To work not like and the house was not sitting. Once a week you take a look, and okay! And then with all my mi friends, the same as himself, the lazy, the time spent: with them, sometimes, and eat and drink, and they sleep.
It was a shame to the father that the son he has such a useless freak. Once or twice he chided him, and then called and said:
— Friendship is the dearest thing on earth. But you need to be friends with only those who are worthy of friendship. How well do you know your friends, son?
— How not to know, father? I, like yourself, I hope. They me not in sorrow or in joy will not leave.
— Well, if so,— says the father shows me to worry about.
As time went on. Father worked still, and her son had walked and carousing. One day he came home late at night, and my father sat silent, sullen.
— Something bad happened, father? asked the young man:
Evil happened, my son. and not from anyone I help.
— Tell me, maybe I can help!
— Say or not say — my grief will remain with me.
— Am I not a son to you? — broke out the young man.
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Chapter I. Theoretical foundations of the problem of correction of the psyche of children, divorce of parents
1.1. The influence of psychological climate of the family on the formation of the psyche of children (before the divorce, during the divorce and after it)
1.2.The specificity of mental manifestations in children in conditions deprivation (due to divorce of parents)
Chapter II. Social work with children of divorced parents in modern Russia.
2.1. Children in families of divorced parents as an object of social work
2.2. Ways to improve social work with children in families of divorced parents
In modern conditions of social and economic development of society, the family, in the traditional sense, continues to lose its importance, significance, weakening of family ties in our country.
In “children of Russia” (Moscow 1999) noted that the statistics of one day fixes a large number of divorces, which reaches almost half of the registered facts, namely: married – 3616, divorced – 1534. As a result without one of the parents remains 1288 children, is transmitted to the orphanage – 30, guardianship and adoption – 132, is taken away from the parents Continue reading
Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.
Fear fear discord
Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.
A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.
What are they afraid of?
Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading