Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
Foundations of education in Japanese society tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. This permissiveness in child adult Japanese citizens differ in their ability to live of the interest of the team or firm, and law-abiding.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight at the festival, running a red sign or a traffic signal for the Japanese violation of the rules, the Commission of which is impossible. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood that the foundations of education.
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We all come from childhood, and our behavior at the table is a reflection of the habits of the parents.
Nothing creates a person, as a daily, regular activities. And what could be more regular than the meal? Reasonable and the question becomes: how to teach your child the culture of behavior at the table? What age to start and what habits to cultivate? That child in good stead, but that would be secondary and even unnecessary?
Mustache flowed – it and some got in my mouth
A very young child it is impossible, of course, to explain that the knife should be held in the right hand and fork in left. What sort of knives and forks, when the most pressing issue is how the spoon actually hold in your hand! And convey to the mouth with any presence of food – in the beginning generally at the level of the feat.
So parents, while there is time, is to think and Refine their own manners – they don’t even realize how young children are sensitive to the atmosphere in the house. And if mom or dad will scold the kid for uncleanliness when eating, one should recall the rule of parenting: the child does not, as he is told, and so, as adults themselves do. So the first joint of the meals: napkins on the table, beautiful dishes, no Kulkov with uncut bread Continue reading
In man nature inherent desire to be first in everything, especially in your career. And if the leadership has to give his wife, the preservation of close relations of the pair becomes the number one issue.
“The success of women negatively affects the self-esteem of men, even if the partners work in different fields and do not compete with each other,” he said as snapped PhD Kate Ratliff of the University of Florida. By success I mean not only the wage level. Men, as a rule, painfully react, if the wife holds the presidency. And especially when subordinates and colleagues recognize her professional credibility.
And although this balance of power is no surprise, to understand how to behave in such a Union and to retain a good relationship, it’s still hard. Blame yourself for success and to hide income? Or to help her husband to climb up to your level? To understand this question better, what he thinks about your success your partner or yourself. To determine which case is more relevant, to help the headings of each Chapter. They reflect internal beliefs that stand in the way to happiness.
“The family should be the main man!”
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