The story of “kidnapping” the offspring of wealthy families do not descend from pages of Newspapers and TV screens [Discussion]
Drama in the family of Christina Orbakaite, forced to think again: what’s the best way to exercise parental rights or ideal method of blackmail?
No surprise, this old family, which departed father exhibited a monster as punishment for “treason” separated from contact with offspring. Such men almost half the country. But the mother that “former” does not admit to their own children, while exclusive new, threatening in the near future to become a serious problem of our entire society. While these dramas are played out mostly in the families of the rich and famous and therefore are fast becoming popular “soap”. But the contagious examples of palaces can move into the cabin. So what do they want, these fathers?
A typical scenario
After breaking up with their wives fathers for some time come to the children by the statutory (or arrangement) scheme. And at some point disappear with children in an unknown direction.
Option: stop to let the mother go home or take the children by force.
Followed by a lawsuit. As a rule, as arguments against the life of the mother are: her unstable mental condition; Continue reading
Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.
Fear fear discord
Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.
A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.
What are they afraid of?
Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading
Games for logical thinking in children – an essential element of parenting and child development, helping to understand the surrounding world in an accessible form. Early cognitive development in the child contributes to quicker and easier adaptation of the child in the modern world. What kind of game for thinking you can spend with your child at each age stage?
The age of 3 years
Toddlers to 3 years all perceive through action with toys and objects. Therefore, any logical tasks should be clearly-effective.
Trehletkam (thinking with grips and peephole) the proposed assignment, in which they would have to produce some action. For example, to arrange the articles or toys into groups to remove excess figure, add the following picture, continuing the series. It is important to diversify the job that the child was not sitting in place and moved around the room, laying on the chairs offered in the job figures or objects. You can also create “obstacles” in the form of a table, under which we have to crawl to get to the place where he was waiting for the toys to the next logical puzzles. You can go to the sheets of paper spread out on the carpet, on the stones across the river, so that the table prepared Continue reading