Mom, I'm scared!
  Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child's psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world. Fear…

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Mom, I'm pregnant!. How to decide to tell about the pregnancy. The advice of the psychologist
  "Mom, I'm pregnant!" Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow…

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Mom, I’m scared!


Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.

Fear fear discord

Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.

A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.

What are they afraid of?

Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading

The Siblings with an age difference of 2 years


The day after I was with her two children going on a vacation. Without her husband ) the Difference of 2 g of 3 months. And now thinking about the upcoming trip reminded me of my long-standing promise )) By the way, the Internet I will not, so I say goodbye to September )

I must say, I’m not a writer – I am a reader ) I try to write exactly what I want to Express, but sometimes it turns out not quite sure. So I want to warn you, I do not insist that the age difference is about 2 years old so perfect that all other choices are bad by definition. I’m sure the difference is big, also has its advantages. Moreover, I think that the difference in age is not a determining factor affecting the relationship of siblings. However, I like a man who consciously and deliberately sought to have a second child within 2 years after the first, and not disappointed in my decision, I want to share my thoughts.

Of course, it is best when parents consciously want a second child – but I have known cases when claiming a categorical unwillingness to even one child’s parents had a child with such a difference – and in the end they acknowledged that turned out to be very convenient Continue reading

The Planned kids room design for girl and boy


If you need to decorate the nursery for two opposite-sex children, but the living area is limited, it makes sense to think about the total child. How to arrange a room and what to pay attention, we’ll tell you in this article. Following the recommendations of specialists, you will be able to create a cozy and comfortable space for their children.

To create a beautiful room with a certain type of design – no problem, a few more the case with the design of the nursery. But the creation of the children, a suitable design for two children, namely girls and boy, is no easy task. In this case, you must consider the fact that style and color preferences of boys and girls will almost certainly be the opposite . So when it comes to shared room for two opposite-sex children, we need somehow to combine the wishes and characteristics of each of the small tenants.

If the number of rooms in the apartment only allows you to create a joint child, it is preferable to choose a large or medium area of the room — so you will have a place for experimentation in design. Despite the fact that especially design for children girls and boys are different, there are common elements in the design Continue reading