We all come from childhood, and our behavior at the table is a reflection of the habits of the parents.
Nothing creates a person, as a daily, regular activities. And what could be more regular than the meal? Reasonable and the question becomes: how to teach your child the culture of behavior at the table? What age to start and what habits to cultivate? That child in good stead, but that would be secondary and even unnecessary?
Mustache flowed – it and some got in my mouth
A very young child it is impossible, of course, to explain that the knife should be held in the right hand and fork in left. What sort of knives and forks, when the most pressing issue is how the spoon actually hold in your hand! And convey to the mouth with any presence of food – in the beginning generally at the level of the feat.
So parents, while there is time, is to think and Refine their own manners – they don’t even realize how young children are sensitive to the atmosphere in the house. And if mom or dad will scold the kid for uncleanliness when eating, one should recall the rule of parenting: the child does not, as he is told, and so, as adults themselves do. So the first joint of the meals: napkins on the table, beautiful dishes, no Kulkov with uncut bread Continue reading
Here I will describe how I managed my ward, using the principle of a sperm, to educate their children or at least to achieve some positive results. Read their stories.
How do I wean my son screaming
When my son was seven years old, when all the misunderstandings he raised the cry. I pleaded with him, commanded, demanded, threatening. But to no avail. Then I decided to use the principle of sperm. One day when the son raised a cry, I started screaming too, but not at him, and something of their own. I screamed much louder than it was, for us on a psychological trainings taught it too. It was summer, and the window we had opened, and we lived on the second floor. Son, heard my cry, pounced on me and demanded that I stop crying, because in the courtyard for all to hear. I listened to it. Several times I had to repeat it, and with shouts we had finished.
As I taught their children to read
Sometimes I’m in their presence was reading a book, wishing that they too had read. They asked what I was reading. I told them this book to read early and hid it so that they found it. So I was able to direct the reading of their children. When one of my sons then started Dating a girl whom I had a good relationship, she confessed to me that I had no idea that in our time Continue reading
We almost got used to the complete lack of a systematic approach in the management culture of our country. Theatres for considerable budgetary funds trying to exercise maximum ingenuity in the matter of repertoire, offering the viewer a “salad” of classical pieces, torn to pieces and artificially re-stitched brilliant contemporary Directors, talented actors all available ways of trying to attract attention, shocking, but ultimately provoke in the viewer is not culture shock, and negative and irritation. The result is visible immediately, as if in a doctor’s surgery — all artificial climbing out badly tailored seams and does not want to become one.
Today the attention of the authorities to the culture, to the problem of upbringing of the younger generation, in fact depart on the second plan. And if authorities have long given up on the culture (today it is perceived familiar and common), the situation with education is, to say the least, fear. Mixed feelings not only engenders the formation of school programs, new textbooks, systems assessments and exams (though it does not add optimism!), but the lack of a systematic approach to the learning process. Where is the goal, where are we going, what do we want from our children? Why you need higher education, Continue reading