Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, etc.
Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.
Basic methods of education
Method conversation or beliefs . This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how one ought to behave in a given situation, figures out the motives of the baby. The tone of the speech of the parent in conversation should be calm, confident and solid. Even year-old kids who can’t answer, listen carefully to the parent in response to the tone.
Method of positive reinforcement . Reinforcements are certain steps parents following action or deed. Reinforcement can be positive or negative (positive). Negative reinforcement we refer simply Continue reading
Cats do just as they please and do what I want. Sometimes the education of the cats takes a lot of strength and patience from their owners. But, there are several psychological techniques that will help You in raising cats.
The educating pet – this correction of his behavior. In order for the cat behaved as You want, you need to convince her that she wants herself. And all changes of behavior caused her only desire. This method in the education of the most effective and appropriate in relation to the animal.
The sooner You start to raise a cat, the faster You will achieve the desired effect. To educate the animal much easier than to re-educate from the already formed character. However, if You still have to re-educate a cat, you need to follow a few tips that will help You reach your goal.
Education cat from childhood:
The correct behavior of the adult animal – it is the result of hard work with the nature of the kitten. After all, what was the cat in childhood, so he will remain in adulthood. Therefore, how could You not feel sorry for the kitten, never allow him to do what did not want to do an adult cat.
Many causes tenderness when the kitten tries to climb to his feet, clinging clothes. But imagine that over time, so should an adult animal. It is very Continue reading
Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.
Fear fear discord
Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.
A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.
What are they afraid of?
Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading