Mom, I'm scared!
  Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child's psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world. Fear…

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Mom, I'm pregnant!. How to decide to tell about the pregnancy. The advice of the psychologist
  "Mom, I'm pregnant!" Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow…

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Games FOR the DEVELOPMENT of LOGICAL THINKING IN CHILDREN

 

Games for logical thinking in children – an essential element of parenting and child development, helping to understand the surrounding world in an accessible form. Early cognitive development in the child contributes to quicker and easier adaptation of the child in the modern world. What kind of game for thinking you can spend with your child at each age stage?

The age of 3 years

Toddlers to 3 years all perceive through action with toys and objects. Therefore, any logical tasks should be clearly-effective.

Trehletkam (thinking with grips and peephole) the proposed assignment, in which they would have to produce some action. For example, to arrange the articles or toys into groups to remove excess figure, add the following picture, continuing the series. It is important to diversify the job that the child was not sitting in place and moved around the room, laying on the chairs offered in the job figures or objects. You can also create “obstacles” in the form of a table, under which we have to crawl to get to the place where he was waiting for the toys to the next logical puzzles. You can go to the sheets of paper spread out on the carpet, on the stones across the river, so that the table prepared Continue reading

How to raise a child, raising children

 

What moms and dads make mistakes in parenting– we all know it, and perhaps even normal, especially for young, inexperienced parents…

Often standing at the cash register in the store, we see the same picture: cries and tantrums of a child who wants so he bought some sweetness. And they, by the way, as luck would have it exhibited at the checkout. In our article we have sought the experience of German psychologists who talk about the errors made by the parents in the upbringing of children.

How to raise a child

German child psychologist Wolfgang Bergmann explains the problem of education of children with deep insecurities of parents: “Modern parents are more indecisive in matters of education than it did a generation ago. They know a lot, but, as it turns out, I don’t know anything…”

Being a parent is so hard because this is a new period of life. 100 years ago every family was brought up at least 5 children. Older children and parents participate in the education of their younger brothers and sisters. Still, the birth rate dropped significantly, families are all later. Because modern parents, in the majority, want to “stand up”, to make a career, and then start thinking Continue reading

Small children is a big lie. Why children lie

Sooner or later it happens. This introduces us parents into a stupor or shocking. It is a lie of our children. Once we catch favorite, perfect, Golden, most honest, righteous child, on lies. One day he confesses that he lost the keys, that “borrowed” you have a little wallet or stubbornly silent on the question “Who smoked in the room?”

Yes, once we understand that our child was lying. Is it dangerous, is there any reason to panic? What if the lie will grow into a habit? No. If you raise a child properly.

Quite naturally, if to a certain age, your baby won’t confess about who broke the vase and candy out of the vase. Until three or four years almost all the time the children the truth (on trifles). They still don’t know the difference between truth and lies, between “good” and “bad”.

Crime and punishment. or a crime and a lie?

The first reason for which the child hides the truth, replacing it with lies, – the fear of punishment. Committing some misdemeanor, “liar” chooses the lesser of two evils – to tell the truth and get an earful for what he did or lie to save Continue reading