How to deal with childhood fears
  - I will not go with you to the cottage, – said five-year Ira. There on the second floor of a Horror story when I have to look away,…

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Child divorce, divorce children, the child after divorce
  Question: Good afternoon.in our family, this situation - my wife and I got married a month ago. she has a baby she is 7 years old. the last time…

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What this child will become when you grow up? — PSI-factor. Opinion

 

We almost got used to the complete lack of a systematic approach in the management culture of our country. Theatres for considerable budgetary funds trying to exercise maximum ingenuity in the matter of repertoire, offering the viewer a “salad” of classical pieces, torn to pieces and artificially re-stitched brilliant contemporary Directors, talented actors all available ways of trying to attract attention, shocking, but ultimately provoke in the viewer is not culture shock, and negative and irritation. The result is visible immediately, as if in a doctor’s surgery — all artificial climbing out badly tailored seams and does not want to become one.

Today the attention of the authorities to the culture, to the problem of upbringing of the younger generation, in fact depart on the second plan. And if authorities have long given up on the culture (today it is perceived familiar and common), the situation with education is, to say the least, fear. Mixed feelings not only engenders the formation of school programs, new textbooks, systems assessments and exams (though it does not add optimism!), but the lack of a systematic approach to the learning process. Where is the goal, where are we going, what do we want from our children? Why you need higher education, Continue reading

Blog Ll Sviridenko: the most Important thing in children’s portrait – children sincerity, spontaneity and ease

 

fThe most important thing in children’s portrait – children sincerity, spontaneity and ease

Photography was always my hobby, but at a certain stage of my life, it became for me something more…

I myself was born in Odessa, at age 18 he moved to the capital and entered the Kiev national economic University, the faculty of management of organizations. Being in my second year I received the gift of my first professional camera and fell in love with this the shutter sound, even then I realized that for me photography is about art and not just a hobby, that want something more. With its decision decided not to delay – after knew I gave birth to a daughter and immediately went to the Institute of postgraduate education of Kyiv national University of technologies and design faculty ART PHOTOGRAPHY. After the birth of my beautiful daughter, I am like most moms, month after month has become to capture every smile, grimace, every step, every memorable moment of their toddler. Then started to remove the other children, and with each shot, with each babe I just fell in love with this carefree, unique children’s world, in these fragile children’s images, sincere expressions of joy, surprise, delight, laughter… Continue reading

How to Be Friendly With Older Children

 

What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .

First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.

Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.

Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.

Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?

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