“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?
The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.
It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.
Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.
Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young how to feed, she remembered, as did the same for her mother. Modern women somewhere inside, in the subconscious, there is a neediness in this experience, in order Continue reading
There are few families in which spouses do not argue and quarrel. If these exist, they are considered ideal for families. However, it is not so, because the couple quarrel can get rid of excess stress, negative emotions and to forget about personal grievances, pouring out his soul. But not everyone knows how to fight. What quarrels often turn into a real battle, where all the tricks are good.
Quarrel: the first years of life together
In order to answer the question of how best to quarrel, to begin to analyze the relationship between the spouses. The only way You will be able to determine how easy or hard You have a case, and as You do!
For example, the first fifteen years of marriage disputes can occur due to the fact that the couple defend their rules of behavior and habits. Wife lapped each other and change as the lapping characters. During this period, quarrels often arise due to domestic issues. And here just it is necessary to teach each other to have mutual respect and correctly to fight, so as not to allow family problems to be fixed.
Quarrels with the appearance of children
The way of life of the spouses changes completely the appearance Continue reading
Child development center “Rostok” – What is group socialization? Or the classic model of learning lessons for toddlers
To begin, let’s answer the question: “why bring a child to such classes”?
You can reply in different ways.
Perhaps you brought your baby with these classes simply because you want him to develop better.
Perhaps you are concerned about any issues that you hope to find answers with the help of our developmental classes.
Questions faced by many parents:
What do I do if:
my child does not speak
my child has no experience with other children
my child does not always behave the way I want, there are times when I just don’t know how to react to his behavior
my child is afraid of everything new
my child sometimes shows aggression
my child won’t let go of me for a minute
I am unable to wean the baby from the nipples
I don’t know whether it’s time to teach a child to potty, and how to do it better
my child is not yet able to drink from a Cup
I don’t know what you can teach such a child
Can to be, you don’t have these issues, but even if you are absolutely satisfied with the development of your child, this will be very useful for the baby. Our experience shows that children who attended Continue reading