Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
Foundations of education in Japanese society tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. This permissiveness in child adult Japanese citizens differ in their ability to live of the interest of the team or firm, and law-abiding.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight at the festival, running a red sign or a traffic signal for the Japanese violation of the rules, the Commission of which is impossible. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood that the foundations of education.
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If you have a long sleep
Because bed and
Loves to relax in the morning
The sun has come up over the city,
Was warm and bright,
What you have is great
I call quick!
The sun has come up!
I wish you would all rassveta, sang, danced!
What? Did you sleep?
The dream is dispelled in a moment the Evil, treacherous beast alarm clock. Still not leaving him Because he is good!
The sun is shining brightly, Cats purr lazily Good morning, Sweetie, God, you’re so beautiful.
Good morning, Dear!! I missed you so much, irresistible, I kiss you tender send And hug me please.
A new day in the window knocking. Round-trip run trams. Something good will happen! Wake up soon, hon!
Sleep is nice on a weekday, to Get out of bed very lazy.
Let the morning light will look in your room, Kiss sweetly, gently and whisper – LOVE!
Early morning, the sun has come up. Good morning, you whispered. Eyes open is my favorite baby, Wait and hope that you will call!
A cheerful morning! Have a good day! Good smiles! Kiss you!
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What prevents to build such relations, which are valuable for both parents and children? Let’s try to understand this from the point of view of the psychology of relationships .
First things first: since I’m talking about adult children, let’s define some terms: who is an adult? If your child’s mental development is normal, in 18 years it is perfectly normal to supererogate (separated) from the parents! He unconsciously preparing themselves for adult life and independence.
Instead enjoy such adult child, parents start to behave just the opposite: panic, throw tantrums, start fighting for is still important (for them) the place of a parent in the life of a son or daughter.
Dear parents, please understand that your children don’t belong to you. They are not a thing, not your property, they are completely separate and independent from you personality. It is difficult to understand, it requires courage and boldness.
Once you have given birth to their children. Have you ever wondered why? After all, you gave birth to them for their own enjoyment. You wanted to be touched by them and to meet their needs in motherhood and fatherhood. What does your children? so why, even when they are already 18, you continue to want to see their young? You still want to have control and power over them. Not selfishness?
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