The Planned kids room design for girl and boy
  If you need to decorate the nursery for two opposite-sex children, but the living area is limited, it makes sense to think about the total child. How to arrange…

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The debate about the primacy of the influences of environment and heredity on personality development
  Among the main driving forces of personality development highlight the impact of the social environment and heredity (in other words – the degree of "animality" and "humanity") on the…

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As the father of the son of mind taught

 

There lived one man, kind and intelligent. All he knew the measure was not stingy but frugal; with good people lived in harmony. Was his only son.

This young man nothing was like his father. To work not like and the house was not sitting. Once a week you take a look, and okay! And then with all my mi friends, the same as himself, the lazy, the time spent: with them, sometimes, and eat and drink, and they sleep.

It was a shame to the father that the son he has such a useless freak. Once or twice he chided him, and then called and said:

— Friendship is the dearest thing on earth. But you need to be friends with only those who are worthy of friendship. How well do you know your friends, son?

— How not to know, father? I, like yourself, I hope. They me not in sorrow or in joy will not leave.

— Well, if so,— says the father shows me to worry about.

As time went on. Father worked still, and her son had walked and carousing. One day he came home late at night, and my father sat silent, sullen.

— Something bad happened, father? asked the young man:

Evil happened, my son. and not from anyone I help.

— Tell me, maybe I can help!

— Say or not say — my grief will remain with me.

— Am I not a son to you? — broke out the young man.

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Mom, I’m pregnant!. How to decide to tell about the pregnancy. The advice of the psychologist

 

“Mom, I’m pregnant!” Why women are so often afraid for the first time to say these words? If we are talking about an unmarried young girl is still somehow can understand. But why such a fear of experiencing adult women, who have everything in order, have a loving husband, a separate apartment, and the child (first, second, third, fifth…) — they are waiting with joy?

The situation says the psychologist Alla Hwang.

It is noticed that in today’s society, today’s women are really sometimes there is fear of motherhood. Motherhood is not really fit to the values of this society: self-realization, career, achievements… the Future of motherhood begins to be perceived boundary between normal life and the life where all the popular values seem to be unavailable.

Against this background, the fear to admit the mother in pregnancy is quite understandable. But he himself is in some sense just a shadow. And figure that the shadow gives is actually a need to support the mother and a lack of confidence, she will get it.

Before the older woman, the mother helped in childbirth, took the child, washed, taught young how to feed, she remembered, as did the same for her mother. Modern women somewhere inside, in the subconscious, there is a neediness in this experience, in order Continue reading

Methods of raising children

 

Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, etc.

Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.

Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.

Basic methods of education

Method conversation or beliefs . This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how one ought to behave in a given situation, figures out the motives of the baby. The tone of the speech of the parent in conversation should be calm, confident and solid. Even year-old kids who can’t answer, listen carefully to the parent in response to the tone.

Method of positive reinforcement . Reinforcements are certain steps parents following action or deed. Reinforcement can be positive or negative (positive). Negative reinforcement we refer simply Continue reading