The story of “kidnapping” the offspring of wealthy families do not descend from pages of Newspapers and TV screens [Discussion]
Drama in the family of Christina Orbakaite, forced to think again: what’s the best way to exercise parental rights or ideal method of blackmail?
No surprise, this old family, which departed father exhibited a monster as punishment for “treason” separated from contact with offspring. Such men almost half the country. But the mother that “former” does not admit to their own children, while exclusive new, threatening in the near future to become a serious problem of our entire society. While these dramas are played out mostly in the families of the rich and famous and therefore are fast becoming popular “soap”. But the contagious examples of palaces can move into the cabin. So what do they want, these fathers?
A typical scenario
After breaking up with their wives fathers for some time come to the children by the statutory (or arrangement) scheme. And at some point disappear with children in an unknown direction.
Option: stop to let the mother go home or take the children by force.
Followed by a lawsuit. As a rule, as arguments against the life of the mother are: her unstable mental condition; Continue reading
PERSONALITY is man as a social being, a bearer of social consciousness.
The essence of a person is manifested through the relationship into which he enters with the outside world and especially with people. This includes all of the relationships that develop between people (in the family, in the community in everyday communication, etc.) Thus, the concept of “personality” describes the man as a social being associated with the assimilation of that diverse spiritual experiences in society. One is not born a personality, and it becomes in the course of their life.
Development is a process of quantitative and qualitative changes of the inherited and acquired properties of the individual.
People in the course of his life developing in several respects:
-physical development – change height, weight, volume of a human body;
-physiological development – change of physiological processes (e.g., puberty);
mental development is the enrichment of the Fund of conditional reflexes, development of character, development of memory, thinking, emotional-volitional sphere, etc.;
social development is evident in the complexity Continue reading
The debate about the primacy of the influences of environment and heredity on personality development
Among the main driving forces of personality development highlight the impact of the social environment and heredity (in other words – the degree of “animality” and “humanity”) on the behavior of individuality. Moreover, there are adherents of the theory on the primacy of the social behavior of the individual, and the primacy of the individual.
First consider the person the result of external influence, which forms the main personality traits, the axioms on which man relies on throughout his life. Because you can not erase the facts of influence on the formation of the personality of the environment in which the individual resides the majority of the time of day (kindergarten, school, home). Copying the behavior of other children, the child learns concepts about life in General and about the laws of existence in a particular environment. Already in kindergarten, the individual is faced with the need to fulfill social roles. Support of its theory, its supporters and see that the people inhabiting different parts of the planet, but having essentially the same physiology, are distinguished by their “color” Continue reading
For any family member divorce – this is a big stress, which is the hardest outlive the children. Psychological help in this situation is necessary not only to alleviate the situation for children at the time of the divorce, but also to minimize the likelihood of its negative emotional impact on their future.
One can argue about what to look for when choosing a life partner, and that caution should be against even the little things (“multiply one hundred all the traits of your partner before marriage and get the character of the future wife”). But if prior to the marriage relationship was truly perfect, and together the pair have started to encounter problems that they cannot overcome nor themselves, nor sometimes even with the help of a psychologist, it is often the only way out is divorce.
Marriage – this is not something that is artificially supported, if to save him is impossible, and life with the unloved person may turn into a constant hassle because sometimes irritate any act of a spouse. Later Continue reading
Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.
Fear fear discord
Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.
A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.
What are they afraid of?
Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading