Soon the 1st of September. Will start a busy day not only for children but also for parents. Especially those whose child crosses the school threshold for the first time. A lot of questions: how to support the child, what to say, how to react. Psychologist Irina Moskalenko will help to answer some of them.
13% of children come to school not ready. It’s not the ability to read and write, and in the development of a preschooler, his state of health. To determine whether the child is ready for school, help psychologist (kindergarten or school). Be sure to tell us about his findings to the teacher.
The question of whether it would be advisable to send your child to school with for 6 years, decided medical-psychological Commission on an individual basis. And not in July or August, and after six months to a year. Sometimes a parent will “prolong childhood” can only hurt: he has lost curiosity, for which I need to grab at the first stage. If parents want to try to determine the readiness of the child, we have a special test. It is necessary to ask the child to draw a human figure. If he draws eyes, ears, hands, fingers – it can be considered that the child is sufficiently Mature.
If something is missing, show the picture to the psychologist – all deviations must be considered on a special scale.
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If you have a long sleep
Because bed and
Loves to relax in the morning
The sun has come up over the city,
Was warm and bright,
What you have is great
I call quick!
The sun has come up!
I wish you would all rassveta, sang, danced!
What? Did you sleep?
The dream is dispelled in a moment the Evil, treacherous beast alarm clock. Still not leaving him Because he is good!
The sun is shining brightly, Cats purr lazily Good morning, Sweetie, God, you’re so beautiful.
Good morning, Dear!! I missed you so much, irresistible, I kiss you tender send And hug me please.
A new day in the window knocking. Round-trip run trams. Something good will happen! Wake up soon, hon!
Sleep is nice on a weekday, to Get out of bed very lazy.
Let the morning light will look in your room, Kiss sweetly, gently and whisper – LOVE!
Early morning, the sun has come up. Good morning, you whispered. Eyes open is my favorite baby, Wait and hope that you will call!
A cheerful morning! Have a good day! Good smiles! Kiss you!
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A few years ago on one of psychological training I sewed the doll. From old mittens turned out cute doll with pigtails, but at the last moment my eye caught a large pink button with two holes. Without hesitation, I sewed this button on the place where should be the spout. Instead the girls turned out to be the mumps. I looked with surprise at what I created with my hands. I felt sorry for this silly naive pig which dressed up in skirt, tied bows, but this does not become a man. I named the doll with Darling and came up with about her tale. History was somehow sad. Understanding what all this is about me, came later. Initially, there were feelings of resentment, shame, anger and unbearable pain.
The process of healing the Child within oneself (“Divine child” as defined by Carl Jung) is long and painful. Sooner or later life puts every adult to have to revise their views and attitudes, change behavior, and often himself. It is obvious that in the childhood it is necessary to find the starting point of today’s problems, conflicts, emotional problems. Resentful, scared, hungry for love Continue reading