Fears inherent in all children. They are – is a normal stage of maturation of the child’s psyche, a natural reaction to the knowledge of the outside world.
Fear fear discord
Each age has its fears. In the third year of life, children are usually afraid of the dark, lonely and confined space (for example, lifts or toilets). At the same time the child “acquires” the artificial fears that his “reward” parents: fear of fairy-tale characters, animals… He might be afraid of fires, wars, criminals. Some are afraid to ride a roller coaster, swim in the pool, don’t go to the doctor, startled by unexpected sounds.
A big part of fear is temporary, they don’t need to fight, you just need to support the child, to ease his worries by taking this feature of his mental development. However, there are other fears, they are called “neurotic”. They are based – mental shock, trauma, cruelty on the part of adult, family conflicts, high level of anxiety among parents. Such fears themselves are not, it requires the assistance of specialists (psychologist, therapist), and change in parenting style.
What are they afraid of?
Older preschoolers are more likely to experience fear of death, which reaches its climax in 6–7 years. Continue reading
Games for logical thinking in children – an essential element of parenting and child development, helping to understand the surrounding world in an accessible form. Early cognitive development in the child contributes to quicker and easier adaptation of the child in the modern world. What kind of game for thinking you can spend with your child at each age stage?
The age of 3 years
Toddlers to 3 years all perceive through action with toys and objects. Therefore, any logical tasks should be clearly-effective.
Trehletkam (thinking with grips and peephole) the proposed assignment, in which they would have to produce some action. For example, to arrange the articles or toys into groups to remove excess figure, add the following picture, continuing the series. It is important to diversify the job that the child was not sitting in place and moved around the room, laying on the chairs offered in the job figures or objects. You can also create “obstacles” in the form of a table, under which we have to crawl to get to the place where he was waiting for the toys to the next logical puzzles. You can go to the sheets of paper spread out on the carpet, on the stones across the river, so that the table prepared Continue reading
Once in kindergarten group always easy to determine which of the children in the team new. Typically, this kid (if he has more than 3 years old) sitting on the sidelines, he has a rather gloomy expression. When everyone goes for a walk in a music hall or physical education, he follows everyone. But sullen expression on his face not disappearing. The child is experiencing severe emotional stress! And the younger kids are not shy in expressing their negative experiences and are weeping bitterly! This is the period of adaptation to the kindergarten, which, unfortunately, inevitable. However, having information, parents can reduce stress.
We already wrote about the ways you can try to alleviate the baby’s experience of kindergarten or nursery schools. How to prepare your child for kindergarten? What Arsenal have parents who are planning to give the baby to preschool, we wrote in the article Soon in the garden (You will find guidance to help the child adjust to the right mood, relieve tension and reduce stress levels). From the article When you need to give a child in kindergarten, we learned that the baby is better to send the team to the 4-th years – from this age a child is ready to stay in kindergarten without parents. However, not every family can afford to wait until the child Matures emotionally and psychologically for kindergarten. Continue reading