What moms and dads make mistakes in parenting– we all know it, and perhaps even normal, especially for young, inexperienced parents…
Often standing at the cash register in the store, we see the same picture: cries and tantrums of a child who wants so he bought some sweetness. And they, by the way, as luck would have it exhibited at the checkout. In our article we have sought the experience of German psychologists who talk about the errors made by the parents in the upbringing of children.
How to raise a child
German child psychologist Wolfgang Bergmann explains the problem of education of children with deep insecurities of parents: “Modern parents are more indecisive in matters of education than it did a generation ago. They know a lot, but, as it turns out, I don’t know anything…”
Being a parent is so hard because this is a new period of life. 100 years ago every family was brought up at least 5 children. Older children and parents participate in the education of their younger brothers and sisters. Still, the birth rate dropped significantly, families are all later. Because modern parents, in the majority, want to “stand up”, to make a career, and then start thinking Continue reading
Thinking is the process of formation of representations about the world on the basis of accumulation and analysis of personal experience and also the ability on the basis of this experience to make predictions. Thinking gives you the opportunity to obtain such information about the phenomena and objects of the world which cannot be directly perceived by the senses (for example, information about the properties of matter, the laws of the historical process, etc.). Thinking is closely related to such a property of consciousness, such as memory.
Let us consider the main stages of development of thinking in a child under 3 years old.
From birth to 6 months the world is perceived by the baby in the categories of “here” and “now”. The child still “not started” memory, so there is no time sensitivity, and repeatability of events and phenomena; every object and situation is perceived as something unique.
Nevertheless, the cognitive needs of the child are very strong at this stage, and the kid quickly and successfully learns to perceive and process information. In 4-5 months are prerequisites for the development of the visual-active thinking, “responsible” for the perception Continue reading
We all have fears and feelings about anything. With regard to relations between m and M . and here they are innumerable: fear of intimacy, fear of sex, fear of losing a loved one, fear of confessions and lots of other things. Well, you, really, and don’t worry, you have up to these fears and will not come if you’re scared just to meet you. What there relationship?
Don’t want? Then let me tell you how to be here. And in General, all basic things closer! Everyone is was for once, there is a relapse, still useful!
” Hello, my name is Anonymous. And I’m afraid to meet you ”
Tell me about your childhood.
All our problems there.
Each boy since kindergarten explain, what line of conduct to men. “Men don’t cry, men don’t dance”! Here’s what has influenced you, PAL! Will teach you good? Any display of emotion! And it is so necessary for travelers, it is the push you need to understand this!
Girls, and You are driven by a desire to comply with the limits of decency, mom/dad always said that girls themselves do not stick to the boys! But, if he’s like this right here and you’re just going to go and just stare at each other, until someone intervenes, well, for example his future girlfriend who will show initiative!
You guys are always so right? So long to Excel and join the ranks of neurotics. Continue reading