Material description: Social role of the man as head of the family, is significantly different from the social role of women as homemakers. Therefore, the education of boys is different from raising little princesses. This opinion and psychologists. And you probably thought about it. What are the features of education young men?
The boy’s upbringing in the family
First, about the child’s upbringing. When can I start raising the child?
The great pedagogue A. S. Makarenko also asked the same question. And how do you think answered this question? Answered almost everything, but in different ways. Some said a month and some weeks. Listened carefully to the answer A. S. Makarenko and said, “You’re already late”. We need education to begin when the child is not born yet.
And need to be educated properly as raising a child, the younger generation could then educate other future students. You know, now that plan is sent to reform Continue reading
Here I will describe how I managed my ward, using the principle of a sperm, to educate their children or at least to achieve some positive results. Read their stories.
How do I wean my son screaming
When my son was seven years old, when all the misunderstandings he raised the cry. I pleaded with him, commanded, demanded, threatening. But to no avail. Then I decided to use the principle of sperm. One day when the son raised a cry, I started screaming too, but not at him, and something of their own. I screamed much louder than it was, for us on a psychological trainings taught it too. It was summer, and the window we had opened, and we lived on the second floor. Son, heard my cry, pounced on me and demanded that I stop crying, because in the courtyard for all to hear. I listened to it. Several times I had to repeat it, and with shouts we had finished.
As I taught their children to read
Sometimes I’m in their presence was reading a book, wishing that they too had read. They asked what I was reading. I told them this book to read early and hid it so that they found it. So I was able to direct the reading of their children. When one of my sons then started Dating a girl whom I had a good relationship, she confessed to me that I had no idea that in our time Continue reading
A few years ago on one of psychological training I sewed the doll. From old mittens turned out cute doll with pigtails, but at the last moment my eye caught a large pink button with two holes. Without hesitation, I sewed this button on the place where should be the spout. Instead the girls turned out to be the mumps. I looked with surprise at what I created with my hands. I felt sorry for this silly naive pig which dressed up in skirt, tied bows, but this does not become a man. I named the doll with Darling and came up with about her tale. History was somehow sad. Understanding what all this is about me, came later. Initially, there were feelings of resentment, shame, anger and unbearable pain.
The process of healing the Child within oneself (“Divine child” as defined by Carl Jung) is long and painful. Sooner or later life puts every adult to have to revise their views and attitudes, change behavior, and often himself. It is obvious that in the childhood it is necessary to find the starting point of today’s problems, conflicts, emotional problems. Resentful, scared, hungry for love Continue reading