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Cheat sheet FOR PARENTS of first-GRADER

 

Soon the 1st of September. Will start a busy day not only for children but also for parents. Especially those whose child crosses the school threshold for the first time. A lot of questions: how to support the child, what to say, how to react. Psychologist Irina Moskalenko will help to answer some of them.

13% of children come to school not ready. It’s not the ability to read and write, and in the development of a preschooler, his state of health. To determine whether the child is ready for school, help psychologist (kindergarten or school). Be sure to tell us about his findings to the teacher.

The question of whether it would be advisable to send your child to school with for 6 years, decided medical-psychological Commission on an individual basis. And not in July or August, and after six months to a year. Sometimes a parent will “prolong childhood” can only hurt: he has lost curiosity, for which I need to grab at the first stage. If parents want to try to determine the readiness of the child, we have a special test. It is necessary to ask the child to draw a human figure. If he draws eyes, ears, hands, fingers – it can be considered that the child is sufficiently Mature.

If something is missing, show the picture to the psychologist – all deviations must be considered on a special scale.

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The boy’s Upbringing in the family

 

Material description: Social role of the man as head of the family, is significantly different from the social role of women as homemakers. Therefore, the education of boys is different from raising little princesses. This opinion and psychologists. And you probably thought about it. What are the features of education young men?

The boy’s upbringing in the family

First, about the child’s upbringing. When can I start raising the child?

The great pedagogue A. S. Makarenko also asked the same question. And how do you think answered this question? Answered almost everything, but in different ways. Some said a month and some weeks. Listened carefully to the answer A. S. Makarenko and said, “You’re already late”. We need education to begin when the child is not born yet.

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What this child will become when you grow up? — PSI-factor. Opinion

 

We almost got used to the complete lack of a systematic approach in the management culture of our country. Theatres for considerable budgetary funds trying to exercise maximum ingenuity in the matter of repertoire, offering the viewer a “salad” of classical pieces, torn to pieces and artificially re-stitched brilliant contemporary Directors, talented actors all available ways of trying to attract attention, shocking, but ultimately provoke in the viewer is not culture shock, and negative and irritation. The result is visible immediately, as if in a doctor’s surgery — all artificial climbing out badly tailored seams and does not want to become one.

Today the attention of the authorities to the culture, to the problem of upbringing of the younger generation, in fact depart on the second plan. And if authorities have long given up on the culture (today it is perceived familiar and common), the situation with education is, to say the least, fear. Mixed feelings not only engenders the formation of school programs, new textbooks, systems assessments and exams (though it does not add optimism!), but the lack of a systematic approach to the learning process. Where is the goal, where are we going, what do we want from our children? Why you need higher education, Continue reading