Sooner or later it happens. This introduces us parents into a stupor or shocking. It is a lie of our children. Once we catch favorite, perfect, Golden, most honest, righteous child, on lies. One day he confesses that he lost the keys, that “borrowed” you have a little wallet or stubbornly silent on the question “Who smoked in the room?”
Yes, once we understand that our child was lying. Is it dangerous, is there any reason to panic? What if the lie will grow into a habit? No. If you raise a child properly.
Quite naturally, if to a certain age, your baby won’t confess about who broke the vase and candy out of the vase. Until three or four years almost all the time the children the truth (on trifles). They still don’t know the difference between truth and lies, between “good” and “bad”.
Crime and punishment. or a crime and a lie?
The first reason for which the child hides the truth, replacing it with lies, – the fear of punishment. Committing some misdemeanor, “liar” chooses the lesser of two evils – to tell the truth and get an earful for what he did or lie to save Continue reading