– I will not go with you to the cottage, – said five-year Ira. There on the second floor of a Horror story when I have to look away, he reads my books, playing with my toys and wants to take me to her.
At first the parents did not notice it, but then the daughter even to the second floor refused to rise. Where did this Horror story? Who invented it?
As you know, children’s imagination knows no bounds, and every second child is afraid of something. Preschooler already knows a lot, but this knowledge is fragmentary. Developed a child’s imagination easily makes up for the missing elements. And now Baba Yaga tale came true, and eats all the naughty boys and girls, and uncle policeman instead of work all day standing under the Windows and catches all cranky kids.
Your child may be afraid of trolls, wizard, Witch, animal, darkness, loneliness. Each individual phobia, but more crucial than the content of fear, and the reason is, the number and degree of development of this fear.
Causes of children’s fears
Let us look at the causes of children’s fears.
Parents should talk to the child on a dangerous topic and tell how to act in a given situation. Forewarned is forearmed.
If your child has been the traumatic situation (stuck in an Elevator, Continue reading
Sooner or later it happens. This introduces us parents into a stupor or shocking. It is a lie of our children. Once we catch favorite, perfect, Golden, most honest, righteous child, on lies. One day he confesses that he lost the keys, that “borrowed” you have a little wallet or stubbornly silent on the question “Who smoked in the room?”
Yes, once we understand that our child was lying. Is it dangerous, is there any reason to panic? What if the lie will grow into a habit? No. If you raise a child properly.
Quite naturally, if to a certain age, your baby won’t confess about who broke the vase and candy out of the vase. Until three or four years almost all the time the children the truth (on trifles). They still don’t know the difference between truth and lies, between “good” and “bad”.
Crime and punishment. or a crime and a lie?
The first reason for which the child hides the truth, replacing it with lies, – the fear of punishment. Committing some misdemeanor, “liar” chooses the lesser of two evils – to tell the truth and get an earful for what he did or lie to save Continue reading
Question: Good afternoon.in our family, this situation – my wife and I got married a month ago. she has a baby she is 7 years old. the last time she(the passenger seat) behaves not very adequate and we are concerned about her psychological and mental state.before the child that was not noticed and now she has a very frequent psychos. the existence of razdrozhitelnosti and not sderjannost for any reason. there is also the fact that at the moment she is to be with the mother(vremeto resting in the country).but the symptoms started 1.5 months ago. question actually I think you can understand. but I would like to know what is this behavior and what could affect it,we have the assumption that this is possibly a manifestation of jealousy towards the mother or the influence of mothers-in-law. I would like to know what to do and how to deal with it and whether it is necessary to struggle. thank you in advance
Reply: Dear Tosha! I think that Your assumptions are correct. Changes in the family are themselves painful for the child, and here the situation develops without it. You need to pick her up from grandma and give it Your maximum attention (read together, go for a walk, draw, sculpt, etc.) that it “thawed”, calmed down and began Continue reading