Training for parents - Children reflect their parents
  Child of the chest: he put it, and then get. (Proverb.) (2 slide) Problem: How to correct behavior teenager, his moral values? How and what kind of experience is…

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HOW to COMMUNICATE WITH the CHILD?
Many parents do not think about this issue - communication happens by itself, they are happy and the parents and the children. While. But there are adults who have already…

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Cheat sheet FOR PARENTS of first-GRADER

 

Soon the 1st of September. Will start a busy day not only for children but also for parents. Especially those whose child crosses the school threshold for the first time. A lot of questions: how to support the child, what to say, how to react. Psychologist Irina Moskalenko will help to answer some of them.

13% of children come to school not ready. It’s not the ability to read and write, and in the development of a preschooler, his state of health. To determine whether the child is ready for school, help psychologist (kindergarten or school). Be sure to tell us about his findings to the teacher.

The question of whether it would be advisable to send your child to school with for 6 years, decided medical-psychological Commission on an individual basis. And not in July or August, and after six months to a year. Sometimes a parent will “prolong childhood” can only hurt: he has lost curiosity, for which I need to grab at the first stage. If parents want to try to determine the readiness of the child, we have a special test. It is necessary to ask the child to draw a human figure. If he draws eyes, ears, hands, fingers – it can be considered that the child is sufficiently Mature.

If something is missing, show the picture to the psychologist – all deviations must be considered on a special scale.

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Psychological techniques in the Education of children from Michail Litvak

 

Here I will describe how I managed my ward, using the principle of a sperm, to educate their children or at least to achieve some positive results. Read their stories.

How do I wean my son screaming

When my son was seven years old, when all the misunderstandings he raised the cry. I pleaded with him, commanded, demanded, threatening. But to no avail. Then I decided to use the principle of sperm. One day when the son raised a cry, I started screaming too, but not at him, and something of their own. I screamed much louder than it was, for us on a psychological trainings taught it too. It was summer, and the window we had opened, and we lived on the second floor. Son, heard my cry, pounced on me and demanded that I stop crying, because in the courtyard for all to hear. I listened to it. Several times I had to repeat it, and with shouts we had finished.

As I taught their children to read

Sometimes I’m in their presence was reading a book, wishing that they too had read. They asked what I was reading. I told them this book to read early and hid it so that they found it. So I was able to direct the reading of their children. When one of my sons then started Dating a girl whom I had a good relationship, she confessed to me that I had no idea that in our time Continue reading

Dialogues with the inner child – personal growth Training

 

A few years ago on one of psychological training I sewed the doll. From old mittens turned out cute doll with pigtails, but at the last moment my eye caught a large pink button with two holes. Without hesitation, I sewed this button on the place where should be the spout. Instead the girls turned out to be the mumps. I looked with surprise at what I created with my hands. I felt sorry for this silly naive pig which dressed up in skirt, tied bows, but this does not become a man. I named the doll with Darling and came up with about her tale. History was somehow sad. Understanding what all this is about me, came later. Initially, there were feelings of resentment, shame, anger and unbearable pain.

The process of healing the Child within oneself (“Divine child” as defined by Carl Jung) is long and painful. Sooner or later life puts every adult to have to revise their views and attitudes, change behavior, and often himself. It is obvious that in the childhood it is necessary to find the starting point of today’s problems, conflicts, emotional problems. Resentful, scared, hungry for love Continue reading